Understanding How Rehoming a Golden Retriever Can Make People and Dogs Feel

Introduction

Do you know what a Golden Retriever is? They are friendly and smart dogs that families often love to have as pets. Sometimes, though, there are reasons why a Golden Retriever needs to go live with a new family. This can be a difficult and emotional process for both the dog and the owner.

How It Makes Owners Feel

When an owner decides to find a new home for their Golden Retriever, they can have many different feelings. Some of these include:

1. Guilt:

Owners might feel bad because they can’t give their dog enough time, attention, or things it needs. They may worry if they are making the right choice and if there was anything else they could have done to keep their pet.

2. Sadness and Loss:

People can get very attached to their Golden Retrievers, so when they have to say goodbye, it can make them feel very sad and like they have lost someone they love. It is important to understand these feelings and give yourself time to feel better.

3. Anxiety and Stress:

Finding a new home for a Golden Retriever can be scary and stressful for the owner. They might worry about finding the right family, making sure their dog will be happy and have a good life, and how their pet will handle the change. These worries can make people feel very emotional.

How It Makes Golden Retrievers Feel

Golden Retrievers are very smart and can sense when things around them are changing. When they have to go live with a new family, they might feel:

1. Confusion:

Dogs might get confused when they have to go to a new home with different things and routines. They might not understand why their old owner isn’t with them anymore.

2. Anxiety and Stress:

Moving to a new home can be very stressful for Golden Retrievers. They might show signs of being worried or upset, like not being able to relax, walking around a lot, barking too much, not wanting to eat, or going to the bathroom in different places. It’s important to make them feel safe and calm during this time.

3. Missing Their Owner:

Golden Retrievers love their owners a lot. When they have to go live with someone new, they can feel sad and might do things like whining a lot, chewing on things they shouldn’t, or trying to run away. They miss the person they love.

How to Help Everyone Feel Better

Both owners and Golden Retrievers need support during the process of finding a new home. Here are some things that can help:

1. Talk to a professional:

It can be helpful to talk to someone who knows a lot about feelings and animals. They can give advice and listen to your feelings.

2. Stay in touch:

If you can, keep in contact with the new family that adopted your Golden Retriever. They can let you know how your pet is doing, and that can make you feel better.

3. Take care of yourself:

Make sure to do things that make you happy and spend time with people you love. It’s also important to have people who can help you when you are feeling sad.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q1. Is it the right decision to find a new home for a Golden Retriever?

A1. Finding a new home for a Golden Retriever should only happen when no other options are available. Talk to experts and get advice to make sure you are doing what’s best for your dog.

Q2. How can I find a good new home for my Golden Retriever?

A2. Reach out to organizations that help find homes for dogs or to people you know who might be interested in having a dog. They can help you find a family that will take good care of your Golden Retriever.

Q3. How can I help my Golden Retriever adjust to their new home?

A3. Help your Golden Retriever get used to their new home slowly. Give them things that are familiar to them, like their bed or toys. Stick to a routine and give them lots of love, attention, and reassurance during this time.

References

1. “Rehoming Your Golden Retriever: How to Find Him the Perfect New Home” by Shannon Miscavige, The Retriever, Journal of the Golden Retriever Club of America, February 5, 2021.
2. “The Emotional Effects of Rehoming a Dog” by Victoria Schade, American Kennel Club (AKC).
3. “Separation Anxiety in Dogs” by Debra Horwitz, DVM, DACVB, Veterinary Partners.
4. “Coping with the Loss of a Pet” by Julie Axelrod, The Humane Society of the United States.
5. “Grief and Grieving – Support and Resources” by Tracy Ross, The Spruce Pets.